Luv2meetU | Friendship & dating for adults with learning disabilities/autism

At Luv2meetU, we know it can be difficult to meet new friends and get out and about.

We can support you to enjoy a range of activities from bowling and swimming, to meals out and club nights. We organise the events that our members tell us they want, so there’s always something different to try. As well as all the fantastic events that we run throughout the year, we also offer a one-to-one dating service for our members.

Luv2meetU also offer many exciting volunteering opportunities. If you’re looking to fill your spare time in a rewarding way, or build skills for your CV, why not think about volunteering for us?​

Luv2meetU members currently enjoy a range of activities both online and face-to-face including:

  • Theatre/cinema nights
  • Ice skating, bowling and other sports
  • Clubbing, music nights and parties
  • Meals out and picnics
  • Shopping and day trips
  • Speed dating
  • One to one meetings/dates
  • and more!

Friendships, relationships and dating

Members are matched based on their interests, personality and age through our database. If both members want to meet up then we set up a date based on what they would like to do – all first dates are chaperoned by a trained member of staff or volunteer. Sometimes members meet at Luv2meetU events and will ask us to arrange a date for them that way too. Luv2meetU regularly run ‘singles mingles’ events and also speed dating as requested. Luv2meetU make follow up calls after each first date to see how things have gone.


The safety of our members is very important to Luv2meetU. All staff and volunteers are DBS checked and fully trained. If you would like more information on our safety policy please contact us.

Contact Luv2meetU

Statistics show that around 50% of people with learning disabilities feel isolated, and one in five say they do not have any friends, which can have serious consequences on both their mental and physical health. But up and down the country we’ve been trying to change that.

Luv2meetU brings over 400 people with learning disabilities together throughout the year, helping them make friends, be part of a community and have more choice in life.

You can help people with learning disabilities live the life they choose by making a donation today.


Staying connected during social isolation

Luv2meetU are now offering alternatives to face to face events to help stop people feeling isolated, and ensure members are active, able to learn new skills and feel part of a community.

We also aim to engage with new people that may be isolated as a result of Coronavirus.

Activities vary per area in terms of demand and may include:

Staying Connected
  • Skype group calls – to chat, catch up and also to see friends
  • Zoom calls
  • Conference calling using PowWowNow
  • A closed Facebook group; a safe space
  • Post cards/letters/pictures within our already established pen pal group
  • Prompts/discussion topics for members during calls such as cooking, pets, books, films.
Social Activities
  • Quizzes online
  • Facebook discussions on various topics
1:1 Support
  • Calls from staff at agreed times where necessary
  • Texts on a regular basis to members who don’t like to talk on the telephone
  • Buddying members up with one another, to call and check in during the week and in the evening

Get in touch to find out more.

  • Other friendship services

    Since 2010 Luv2meetU has expanded! We now cover 11 local authority areas and have a number of spin-off projects, including No Limits and Hum Tum...
  • Luv2meetU membership

    Becoming a member of Luv2meetU is easy – just contact the Luv2meetU team who will give you an application form to complete at your own pace with a supporter.
  • Luv2meetU locations

    Luv2meetU services are mainly located in the north of England. We also run other services similar to Luv2meetU, such as Hum Tum and KIT, in some locations.